i don't know what the difference between boy and girl ?
Yesterday i read story about wife was pregnant , she already has 5 daughters and she love them , but the husband told her if the baby that you carry now is a girl i will leave you or i will marry another women .before she give birth few month ago ,she went to hospital to know what the sex of the baby , they told her it's a girl
she was afraid to tell him she will give birth of a girl , so she wait until last month .
Labor came and she went to hospital and give birth for beautiful healthy girl.
the nurse went to the husband and said :( congratulation it's a girl ) . his face changed to different anger color and he went to delivery room to his wife , when she saw him with his anger she scared, he will do something to her.
he took off his belt and beat her so badly in her face and body just because he want a boy !!
the nurse saw him and she call the security of the hospital and they put him in prison ..
Instead of being happy and smile for her new baby she became sad and cry
why he did this ?
first of all Allah is the only one who Decides to be a girl
second : i studied biology and about the Sex of the baby the man is who determines the sex of the baby not the woman So why he get angry ?
until this second there are men and ( also ) women angry for what Allah gave them , there are many people can't have children .
another story i heard it many years ago from my dad , once there was a man have 6 daughters , he always felt shame to have lots of daughters.
after many years his daughters died young and Allah left him only one after he had 6 or 5 daughters i don't remember the number :(
his wife gave birth for boy many times the same number of his daughters (6 or 5 boy's ). the boys grown up and he became old , his son's didn't care about him and they left him ,the only one with him is his daughter ( after her sisters died )
he said after seeing what happened to him " i wished if i didn't say i hate girls , i wished if i thank Allah at that time , it's all happened because i never accept what Allah give me , healthy daughters respect me ".
1431 years since migration of prophet Muhammad
and like we are living in Days of ignorance before Islam
and like we are living in Days of ignorance before Islam
they used to infanticide every girl born , in my opinion they do the same thing in this century when they scream at their wives why she gave birth for a girl ,or the wife herself hate her baby just because she's girl.
In my family there are some people like this but Alhamdullah my parents love us , they don't care about this, they always said Allah gave us blesses , so why we don't accept it ?
it's true i have only two brothers but my mom and dad know Allah gave them only two for a reason maybe if they have more they will get in fight in the street .
my parents says we're very proud all of you
one of my sisters study Master and my dad is so happy and very proud of her Masha'allah .
In my family there are some people like this but Alhamdullah my parents love us , they don't care about this, they always said Allah gave us blesses , so why we don't accept it ?
it's true i have only two brothers but my mom and dad know Allah gave them only two for a reason maybe if they have more they will get in fight in the street .
my parents says we're very proud all of you
one of my sisters study Master and my dad is so happy and very proud of her Masha'allah .
prophet Muhammad said :
(if someone had three daughters , and he become patient with them ( his daughters ), fed and clothes them, they will protect him from fire of hell )
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