“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - H. Jackson Brown Jr.
Sometime you need to keep anything that happened to you for yourself, don't even mention it to anyone, because once you put your life in front of them soon they will use it against you.